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Majority of men complain about premature ejaculation when having sex with their partner. There’s a plethora of suggestions out there on the Internet promising to help overcome this sexual dysfunction.

As mentioned in previous post, there are many ways to control or delay orgasm and one simple way to give men more control over their orgasm comes from a muscular exercise called Kegel.

Named after Dr.Arnold Kegel, the exercise is meant to strengthen what is medically called the pubococcygeous muscles, PC muscles for short. In layman’s terms, these are the pelvic floor muscles starting from the pubic area down to the anus.

Part of that are the sphincter muscles around the anus and bladder area that controls defecating and urinating. If you try controlling and holding down your pee, there are muscles that do that and these are it.

There are a number of benefits for both men and women who can control their pelvic floor muscles. But in the interest of controlling premature ejaculation in men, doing Kegel exercises has been shown to be effective in controlling orgasm. And in some extreme cases, even allow men to reach orgasm without ejaculation. But that’s another topic altogether.

So, how do we conduct Kegel Exercises? Here are a few items to consider and some easy suggestions:

Location

No, there’s no need to enroll in a gym class. No special gym equipment too. You can exercise your PC muscles anywhere, at home, in the bathroom, in the car, in the office, etc. No one would even notice you’re doing it.

Identifying the PC Muscle

Of course, you have to know first where the PC muscles are before exercising them. As stated above, these are your pelvic floor muscles with the most prominent being the sphincter muscles around the anus and bladder. You know where they are when you can squeeze off urinating or defecating. And with your penis fully erect, exercising the PC muscles will result in your penis lifting and bobbing up and down on its own.

First Try Outs

And unless you suffer from bladder or bowel incontinence for some medical reasons, there should be no impediment to doing Kegel exercises. The Kegel exercise involves squeezing the PC muscles and holding it for 2-3 seconds about 10 times or as often as you can manage. When urinating, you can start out squeezing the sphincter muscles so that the urine goes down in trickles, but not totally shut off as that could lead to bladder problems later on. Do this for 2-3 seconds interminably then let the urine pass.

Main Exercises

Do it consistently over the week, going 5-7 seconds or longer after a couple of weeks and more frequently over time. During masturbation, do the Kegel exercises while the penis is erect without stroking. Notice the bobbing of your penis as you to this. Then as you stroke the penis, do the same Kegel . And as you reach orgasm, see if you can delay the ejaculation by squeezing your sphincter muscles. It probably won’t succeed the first time. But doing this often will further strengthen the PC muscles and allow you to gain control when ejaculating.

Well, these are the basics of Kegel exercises. Give it a try and the end result over your sex life can be rewarding.

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