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Perhaps the most universal initiations into manhood that many teenage boys undergo is losing their virginity. Of course, scoring with the girls can make one famous or infamous among the other teens in school or college.

But there are occasions when word can spread around the halls how a male quickly ejaculated leaving the female dissatisfied with him. Sooner or later, what could have turned out a triumphant initiation into manhood becomes a humiliating episode in one teen’s high school life.

When boys talk about their sex escapades, much is said about the girls, how they made it with them, and even some hint of how it was in bed, just to tease those among them that remain virgins. It seems they can easily talk about their first orgasm, however, how early they came is always left out. It is the females who engage in this talk. The females will talk about the penis size and how well the male performed. Talk like this has a way of going around the campus, and pity the males who soon learn they are being laughed at behind their backs.

Premature ejaculation can be very prevalent among younger men. Their overflowing libido just gives reign to an orgasm that happens with utmost abandon at the expense of their partner. It may not be a good thing that most of the men at this stage do ejaculate prematurely.

This is just natural and the sooner the young man understands it is all part of growing up, the sooner he can work on overcoming premature ejaculation. Ejaculating prematurely does not have to be permanent. Over time, the physiological causes can be eliminated or cured. For example, a hypersensitive penis that a male coming of age typically has can lose much of that with regular masturbation. Some younger men manage a couple of orgasms a day or more and masturbation helps delay the next orgasm during sexual intercourse.

It helps greatly when the sexual encounters happen under a relaxed unhurried atmosphere. Often, a teenage couple making out in the backseat of a car or in their home while the parents are not looking, exerts undue stress for the young male to consummate the act as fast as he can.

Most early encounters are in these conditions, one that easily creates in the mind a template that sex must be done quickly. Such stressful situations should be discouraged. They create precisely the situational impetus for premature ejaculation to continue to occur with ease.

Premature ejaculation can weigh down on the boy as soon as he realizes he’s not making his partner happy in bed. But after a few sexual exploits, there’s a good chance the young man can overcome the problem. It just takes some conscious effort to be less selfish in bed by caring that the girl is able to reach her orgasm at about the same time as he does.

To a large extent, practicing such conscious effort every time he masturbates does alleviate the problem. Otherwise, it is time for him to get professional help.

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